Choosing the right senior living community is a big decision, but it doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. By asking the right questions and getting to know the people and place firsthand, you’ll be one step closer to finding a community that truly feels like home.
Questions About Living Preferences and Accommodations
Every senior living community is different, and finding the right one means choosing a place that truly honors your personal preferences, lifestyle, and needs.
- What floor plans are available?
- Are couples allowed to live together?
- Can residents decorate and personalize their own units?
- Does the community have a 24-hour emergency response system?
- Are pets allowed? Is there a breed or weight restriction?
- How is housekeeping and maintenance handled within the community?
- What’s the community’s policy on visitors and overnight guests?
- Is there resident and guest parking?
Questions About the Available Amenities and Activities
Ask how the community supports residents in staying active—physically, socially, and mentally, so you can feel confident there will be plenty of opportunities to stay engaged, connected, and fulfilled.
- What kind of activities are offered to keep residents engaged and having fun? Is there a calendar of events I can look at?
- What amenities are available on-site? Are there fitness centers, media rooms, or restaurants?
- Are there outdoor spaces to enjoy, such as gardens, walking paths, or courtyards?
- Does the community provide transportation for errands, outings, or doctor’s appointments?
Questions About Health and Wellness
- What levels of care are provided? Ask about the services available and whether a resident can transition to different levels of care if needed.
- How are medical emergencies handled? Does the facility offer on-site medical and emergency support?
- What are the staff experiences and qualifications?
- What is the staff-to-resident ratio?
- What are the dining options or meal plans, and can they accommodate special dietary needs?
- Are residents permitted to cook or keep food in their units?
Questions about Finances and Contracts
- What is the monthly cost to live in the community?
- Are there any additional fees for extra services or support?
- Does monthly parking cost extra?
- Which services and utilities are included in the monthly rate?
- How does billing work and what are the payment options?
- If a resident needs to move or transition to a different level of care, what is the policy on transfers?
Additional Tips
- Keep organized notes from each tour, including answers to your questions. This will make it easier to compare communities later.
- Speak with the residents and their families to hear about their experiences firsthand. Their insights into daily life and interactions with staff can give you valuable perspective and greater confidence in your final choice.
- Trust your instincts. Ask yourself: is this a place where you or a family member would feel happy?
Get Answers Sooner, Not Later
Finding the right community takes time, so it’s a good idea to start your search early, before it becomes an urgent need. Planning ahead gives you space to explore your options thoughtfully and without pressure. Since life can be unpredictable, having a shortlist of preferred communities and a few key questions ready can make any future transitions feel more manageable and less overwhelming.